When you see or hear the word "hospitality", what do you envision? Southern Living Magazine? Martha Stewart? Grandma? The house decorated and cleaned just so? A dinner party with 5-6 courses, perfectly cooked and displayed?
The dictionary defines hospitality as:
Cordial and generous reception of or disposition toward guests.
Better yet, Paul writes in Romans 12:13
Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.
The Greek word used in the text Romans 12:13 is filoxenia which means to show love to strangers. This was beautifully illustrated during our trip to Asheville this past weekend. Marti was visiting a friend down at the beach, so I had the duties of the children all to myself. I had a speaking engagement Sunday night. We arrived in Asheville in time to go straight to the church. Afterwards, the children minded themselves pretty well while I chatted with different folks in the congregation. At about 8:00 pm, tired, hungry, and thirsty, we were able to pack up and head to our host's home. On our arrival, we were greeted with a simple but tasty "child friendly" meal. Our hostess was very attentive to the children and put them at ease. They made it very comfortable to be there - like we were family and had been there many times. Mixing bed time routine and "adult conversation" was made easy.
The next morning, the kids were up before me. I heard them downstairs with our hostess. I could smell breakfast and coffee waiting. I listened to the conversation that the children were having with our hostess. It was amazing to hear them willingly and cheerfully interact with her. It was obvious that she had won their trust.
What did I learn? Hospitality is NOT about the having the "right" foods, drinks, or decorations. It is about making strangers feel at home. It is about being attentive to little people (ie, children). It is about being relaxed as a host and hostess and conveying that through verbal and non-verbal means. It is about being cordial and generous. It is about love.
I love Asheville! There are lots of wonderful places to stay - the Grove Park Inn being the classic Asheville hotel. Great post, anyway!
Posted by: Jan in Nicaragua | April 27, 2004 at 10:19 AM